Dating in the pandemic is hard. Hooking up is even harder, if not downright impossible. Right now, for a lot of people, sexting is as far as things can go. And if that is the case—if some SMS action is the closest we can get to a hookup—then composing a message that makes the recipient hot under the collar without venturing into cheesy or sleazy territory will become a more necessary art form than ever.
And no, we’re not talking about unsolicited dick pics here. While there’s definitely a time and a place for sending nudes, there’s also a lot to be said for, you know, using your words. FYI, there’s no need to be embarrassed about sexting, because (almost) everyone does it; according to 2015 research, more than 80% of people had sexted in the previous year. That being said, it can be hard to know what to say. That’s why we’re here to help you out with some examples of super hot sexts to sent your partner.
We asked real people for examples of super-hot sexts.
For starters, we spoke to a number of men and women about what makes the perfect sext, and they shared some examples of the messages that have sent them wild—and why.
Alex, 32, says the hottest message he ever received was: “I’m going to do things to you your 15-year-old self could only dream of.” Meanwhile James, 25, says he lost it when he received this take on the lewd lyrics to the Khia classic: “I’m gonna get all up in that neck, back, bussy, and crack.”
Other messages depicted entire fantasy scenarios, to really set the mood. “My now-boyfriend messaged me saying he was going to go through my clothes and pick outfits for me to try on and tell me to bend over in front of him to pick up what I’d taken off,” says Alex, 24. “It was the prospect of being dressed up and admired… and the dominance took away the pressure of me having to curate how I looked, and then also there was the ego boost of just being admired and of performing.”
A number of women said they appreciated sexts that focused on their pleasure. Gabrielle, 26, recalls this sexy message: “I want to capture your tongue with my lips, and feel my own name reverberate in my mouth when you moan it as I make you cum.” Hayley, 31, remembers being similarly excited (and surprised) by a text that prioritized her desires: “A guy I had been seeing for a few weeks texted me ‘I’m going to make you come harder tonight than you did last week.’ It was almost shocking to get a text from a guy that was focused on what he was going to do to me, and not the other way around.”
Now it’s your turn! Here are 52 sexting examples to get your creative juices flowing.
The compliment sext:
You are so beautiful/handsome.
You are so fucking sexy.
I can’t stop thinking about you.
Your body is so hot.
I can’t wait to see those gorgeous eyes/lips/legs of yours again.
I get so turned on thinking about you.
You make me so hard.
I can’t believe I get to kiss you/taste you/touch you/fuck you.
The what-I’m-doing-right-now sext:
I’m so turned on right now.
I’m touching myself and thinking of you.
I’m so hard right now.
I’m wearing those black briefs you love, and nothing else.
I just got out the shower and I’m still naked.
I’m imagining how it would feel to be inside you right now.
I’m imagining how you would look riding me right now.
The preview/anticipation sext:
I want to take off your clothes the second I walk through the door.
I’m already hard thinking about what I’m going to do to you later.
God, I can’t wait to kiss you/taste you/touch you/fuck you.
That pussy is going to taste so fucking good tonight.
I’m going to make you feel so fucking good tonight.
I can’t wait to be inside of you.
I can’t wait to feel you inside of me.
I’m going to bend you over the bed/couch/table and have my way with you.
I’m going to make you cum so hard tonight.
The dominant sext:
Be a good girl and make your pussy wet for me.
You can’t wait for me to come over and fuck you, isn’t that right?
Your last photo/message made me hard. What do you have to say for yourself?
You’re about to make me come. What do you have to say for yourself?
Someone needs to be punished.
I want to hear you beg for it.
Tell me how you’re touching yourself right now.
The submissive sext:
I’ve been bad.
I think I need you to punish me.
I want to beg you to let me come.
I’ll be a good boy and do what you say.
I think I need to be spanked.
I need to be taught a lesson.
Do whatever you want with me tonight.
The sexual fantasy sext:
Tell me what turns you on the most.
What do you think about while I’m fucking you?
What do you fantasize about when you touch yourself?
I’d love to tie you up and spank you.
I want to pull your hair while I take you from behind.
I’m want to blindfold you and tease you until you’re begging me for more.
I’d love to watch you get fucked by another person.
Would you ever want people to watch us have sex?
What toys do you want us to use together?
The reflecting-on-last-time sext
It was so hot when you _____.
I still get turned on thinking about _____.
You looked so sexy when you _____.
Did you like it when I ____?
I can’t wait to kiss you/taste you/touch you/fuck you again.
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