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Sending a photo of yourself in underwear, naked or in suggestive positions – a “nude” – is a widespread practice among adolescents. Including in college. “At 13-14 years old, they discover their first love. With electronics, you can go much further and show your body to others. They want to see, without measuring the consequences that it can have behind, reports Jean-Marie Chrisment, housekeeper, head of the Scey-sur-Saône brigade.

For 20 years, the military has been doing prevention in schools. And for about five years, he has seen the practice become “a fad”. “Behind the screen, there is no restraint. If they were face to face, they wouldn’t be doing a tenth of what they are capable of doing via screens. “

“It’s snowballing”

Sometimes, it happens that these photos are posted on social networks, without the consent of the people concerned. “The problem is when there is separation: there is always one of the two who is very angry. In revenge he will send photos with insults, and distribute them as widely as possible. Then, it snowballs because it shares with all the effort ”, sums up the soldier.

At least once a quarter, a case is escalated to the level of his brigade. With terrible consequences on young victims: dropout, psychological care, or even, in the worst case, suicide. In 2015, in Vesoul, a young girl, victim of cyberstalking, tried to end her life by jumping from a bridge. “For children who are already fragile and hypersensitive, it can be a trigger. It can go very quickly, ”he warns. In 70% of cases, the victims of revenge porn are girls.

“Above all, we must not make the victims feel guilty”

To pupils who wish to send “nudes”, he recommends making sure that neither the location of the photo nor their identity is recognizable. “If it is shared, the damage will still be done, but it will be less,” he explains, calling for “especially not to make the victims feel guilty.” “As long as the person takes a free photo, there is no problem. It is when the photos are released without permission that there is a problem. It is the one who rebroadcast who is guilty, ”he emphasizes.

To college students, the housekeeper reminds that the unauthorized dissemination of intimate photos is an offense (punishable by one to two years in prison and a fine of 45,000 to 60,000 €) and that the investigators have the technical means to go back to the source of the sending “even if the photo has been deleted”. Likewise, once released, photos will have a hard time disappearing, especially if they have been shared widely. Hence the interest in quickly denouncing the facts, explains the gendarme, inviting the victims to speak to a person of confidence (see opposite).

“She thought her parents were going to kill her”

Throughout his interventions in schools, Jean-Marie Chrisment has been able to forge a bond of trust with college students. “Last year, a kid came to see me at the end of an intervention. She said to me: “I am a victim”. She had taken a photo in a bra that had been released by her boyfriend at the time of the separation. I went to see the boyfriend. He denied and then started to cry: the teenager in all his splendor who wanted to wow the gallery. As for the young girl, she thought her parents were going to kill her. But they had a very intelligent reaction: they supported her and she is doing really well today. ”

Photo ER / Bruno GRANDJEAN

Lexicon

Revenge porn : sexually explicit content publicly shared online without the consent of the person (s) appearing on the content, for the purpose of revenge

Nude (pronounced nioude): a photo of oneself, naked, sent for erotic purposes

Sexting : the act of electronically sending sexually explicit texts or photographs, in French “sexting”, from one cell phone to another

Dick pic : penis photograph, sent over the internet which is akin to sexual cyberstalking when sent to someone without consent. When sent to someone with their consent, it is sexting

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